Decisions that are “simultaneously heartbreaking, financially responsible, and hopeful.” Felt that. It’s like asking if it’s really safe to breathe again.
I genuinely relate with this and am really proud of the choices you made and support you. I imagine it wasn’t easy to write this one and want you to know that i see your bravery
Ashleigh, "maybe shame has simply been taking credit for decisions that were actually acts of care" is one of the most freeing reframes I've read in a while. This list isn't evidence of failure — it's evidence of someone carrying an enormous amount and still making thoughtful, protective choices for herself and her daughter, even from inside depression. Thank you for putting words to something so many people carry silently. Rooting for you as you navigate all of this. Carried with care!
Decisions that are “simultaneously heartbreaking, financially responsible, and hopeful.” Felt that. It’s like asking if it’s really safe to breathe again.
So much to deal with, you're a superwoman for getting from one minute to the next.
I genuinely relate with this and am really proud of the choices you made and support you. I imagine it wasn’t easy to write this one and want you to know that i see your bravery
Ashleigh, "maybe shame has simply been taking credit for decisions that were actually acts of care" is one of the most freeing reframes I've read in a while. This list isn't evidence of failure — it's evidence of someone carrying an enormous amount and still making thoughtful, protective choices for herself and her daughter, even from inside depression. Thank you for putting words to something so many people carry silently. Rooting for you as you navigate all of this. Carried with care!
You know I love you with entire heart but just in case I haven’t reminded you lately… I LOVE YOU!
The things that we often shame ourselves about are the things that we need to do to survive… Or at least not cuss somebody out.
You are making the best decisions for you right now, and there’s absolutely nothing shameful about it.